Love - Is it different than lust?
Love and lust both imply intense emotions and actions. With regards to holidays or celebrations, Love stirs a deep and enduring emotional regard for another individual. From that initial infatuation to a life-long commitment, love embraces our relationships. Love’s expression ranges from affection/fondness to devotion/passion.
In contrast, Lust occurs when there is:
an intense sexual desire
an uncontrolled craving, or
an overwhelming appetite for pleasure/delight (Webster’s, Random House, American Heritage Dictionary).
Surprisingly, there are those who believe that lust and love are inseparable, often synonymous. Science even suggested that lust may be more genetics than a matter of choice. Is lust a counterpart to love? Must love ultimately become lust?
Throughout history, some civilizations have celebrated lust. Their gods honored mankind’s carnality.
Goddesses of Wanton Love – Achtland (Celtic), Anna Perenna (Etruscan), Arianrhod (Welsh)
Goddesses of Prostitution – Flora (Roman), P’an Chin-lien (Chinese)
Goddesses/gods of Lust/Frenzied Love – Ichpuchtli (Aztec), Lempo (Finnish), Rangda (Balinese)
While emphasis is placed on the sexual lust, any insatiable desire for power, money, or object is also lustful. As one of The Seven Deadly Sins, lust seems the most insidious. The continual longing with the mind soon gives way to committing the act. As a person’s heart becomes hardened, they become insensitive “giving themselves over to sensuality so as to indulge in every kind of impurity, with a continual lust for more”
(Ephesians 4:18-19). Soon, the state of one’s heart becomes as deadly as the act itself (Matthew 8:28).
Love and Lust- What does God say?
Those who would suggest lust and love are counterparts are ignoring God. God created our capacity to love. “Let us love one another for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God” (1 John 4:7).
|Generates life (1 John 4:9-10)
||Corrupts (Ephesians 4:22)|
|Practices Sincerity (Romans 12:9–10)
||Mocks (Jude 1:16)|
|Brings Mercy (Ephesians 2:4–5)
||Condemns (2 Timothy 2:22, 26)|
|Sacrifices (1 John 3:16)
||Craves (1 Corinthians 10:6–8)|
|Protects and Trusts (1 Corinthians 13:7)
||Tempts and Hurts (1 Timothy 6:9–10)|
|Gives Unconditionally (Romans 5:8)
||Robs Mortally (James 1:14–15)|
|Endures Forever (Psalm 107)
||Passes Away (1 John 2:17)|
From a worldview, lust and love seem interchangeable. The world offers fantasizing in place of experiencing the reality of God’s love. The disciple Paul speaks of the choices one faces regarding love and lust (1 Timothy 3:1-5). We are warned, “Do not love the world or anything in the world . . . for everything in the world -- the cravings of sinful man, the lust of his eyes and boasting of what he has and does -- come not from the Father [God] but from the world”
(1 John 2:15-16). Through His Son, Jesus Christ, God offers us a fulfilling relationship based on His affection and devotion -- God Is Love.
Love - A Description
Love is described in 1 Corinthians 13:
"If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
We have all sinned
and deserve God’s judgment.
, the Father, sent His only Son to satisfy that judgment for those who believe in Him.
, the creator and eternal Son of God, who lived a sinless life, loves us so much that He died
for our sins, taking the punishment that we deserve, was buried
, and rose from the dead
according to the Bible
If you truly believe and trust this in your heart, receiving Jesus alone as your Savior, declaring, "Jesus is Lord
," you will be saved from judgment
and spend eternity with God in heaven.
What is your response?
Yes, I want to follow Jesus
I am a follower of Jesus
I still have questions